Some things are just too unbelievable to have been fabricated. I came across this news story recently and was flabbergasted.
http://today.msnbc.msn.com/id/21882976/
In a nutshell, a 13 year old girl “met” a boy online who supposedly lived nearby and they began to correspond and struck up a cyber-relationship. According to her parents, her online activities were well monitored by them and they took precautions to protect their daughter from the dangers of meeting people online. After a period of time, the young man ended the cyber-relationship with the girl and apparently made some very nasty comments about her to others. This hurt her deeply and she committed suicide. This part of the story is very tragic and my heart truly goes out to her parents. But what makes the story so unbelievable and wild is that the boy was never real… he was fictitious. He was made up by the mother of a former friend of the girl who died. The mother said that she was only trying to find out what this young lady was saying online about her own daughter. My reaction to reading that was “What?!?!”
This mother, an adult, should have known better than to play those kinds of games with a 13 year old child! She should have known better than to play with this girls emotions this way. SHE is the adult… SHE had the responsibility to act like one and she failed miserably at that. And she says she doesn’t feel guilty. In the article the girl’s father is quoted as saying “They sent us a letter in the mail, basically saying that they might feel a little bit of responsibility, but they don’t feel no guilt or remorse or anything for what they did.” I find that absolutely unfathomable.
The girl’s parents are discussing with local authorities just what laws the woman broke and just what she can be charged with. It’s been difficult to sort out since unfortunately stupidity and irresponsibility aren’t illegal.

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November 28, 2007 at 9:06 pm
QuillDancer
Why can’t the Meiers sue for slander and defamation of character? Words are the most vicious and bitter weapon of all and that woman knew it, or she wouldn’t have been so concerned about what was being said about her own daughter. While I think it is a little much to say the woman intended Megan to commit suicide, she did set out to deliberately and maliciously do the girl harm. An assault was committed and the weapon of choice was words. I believe the woman should be found criminally liable. (And the arguement that Megan started the name calling might have held water had the woman’s daughter been the one who retaliated, but an adult should know better.)
November 29, 2007 at 12:08 pm
cindrarella
I heard about this. So awful. What a tragedy. I hate fucking MySpace.
December 1, 2007 at 4:32 pm
nessa
They should file a civil suit. I’d work day and night at a gas station to make lawyers fees to bankrupt an adult who did this. This story makes me want to start a campaign called Bloggers Against Bullies.
It is so easy to write hateful things: you are disconnected from the emotions by space and time. Bloggers write things they would never have the balls to say to someone’s face.
December 1, 2007 at 6:44 pm
cindrarella
Poop on your head. Poop on your head. Poop on your head.
December 3, 2007 at 4:46 pm
Nessa
Are you bullying me, C?
December 4, 2007 at 4:56 pm
cindrarella
No, no, no…I’m picking on my sister!
December 4, 2007 at 10:36 pm
cindrarella
Poop on your head, Brooke!
December 6, 2007 at 1:13 am
Brooke
Cindra - Not appropriate! (Said in my best high pitched 3 year old voice)
Nessa - It’s just a goofy joke between Cindra and I
December 8, 2007 at 3:06 am
Gawpo
Pure evil. The mother should be prosecuted for Criminal Negligent Homicide. I hope she feel really, really good about her pitiful self.
Poop on your head! Poop on your head!
That is inappropriate!!!