A local young man, 24, has screwed his life up beyond belief over some bad choices and poor judgment. That is just sad. The aforementioned young man was drinking, smoking marijuana, then got in his car and was speeding. He hit another car in an intersection when he ran a red light and killed four people; two young mothers in their 30s and two children. A third child survived and is in the hospital with serious injuries. This man is going to jail for a very long time. To his credit, he is remorseful and does comprehend just how badly he screwed up. I can’t possibly imagine how he is going to be able to live the rest of his life with the knowledge that he killed four people. I can’t imagine what it must be like to be 24 years old and know that your life as you know it is over. My mind just can’t begin to wrap around that concept. Call me a bleeding heart liberal, but on some level I do feel badly for what he’s going through … and for what he’s going to have to live with forever. Of course I feel sorrow for the family and friends of the four people who died. They are in my thoughts and prayers. And I believe this man deserves any sentence he’s given. I can just empathize a little bit with the position he’s in. He didn’t intend to hurt anyone when he made those really poor choices. But he DID cause their deaths and that is his responsibility and he now has to pay the consequences of his actions. I know it sounds like I’m straddling the fence here… I’m just seeing both sides of the story. Any thoughts to share?
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January 26, 2009 at 1:17 am
Quilly
Brooke — he did choose. He willingly, with total disregard for the known possible consequences, chose to drive when he was in no fit condition to do so. You could equate his choice to playing Russian Roulette — loading a six shooter with only one bullet, spinning the chamber, then pulling the trigger to see if the gun would go off. To make matters worse, when his gun did go off, it took out several innocent bystanders.
I couldn’t imagine trying to live with such a consequence, I am sorry he is having to suffer this consequence, but I can’t help but think he ordered it from the comic menu called LIFE. I don’t think the four people that died — or the child now living without a mother — did.
January 26, 2009 at 1:24 am
Brooke
Aunt Quilly – I do absolutely agree with you. He made a choice and now must pay for it. That’s the bottom line. The people he killed were completely innocent and had no choice in the matter. I couldn’t agree more. I didn’t mean to sound overly empathetic towards him… just imagining the situation he’s in and acknowledging it must be more difficult than I can fathom. But yes, he put himself in that situation with the choices he made.
January 26, 2009 at 7:26 am
goodbadandugly2
well life is made up of choices. All we can do is try and be there for people to help them see the pros and cons of their decisions.
January 26, 2009 at 3:13 pm
oceallaigh
Consequences are the flip side of free will. The alternative is denial of choice. In earlier iterations of society, a son who embarrassed his family just by smoking a joint could count his blessings if he were merely banished from home and country. There would be no question of his long surviving the death of four people by his hand.
The USA eliminated such draconian punishments, not because of moral scruples but because labor has traditionally been so scarce relative to resources that the nation could better afford to overlook the crimes of a person than to lose that person’s work.
I am not surprised that you are struggling with this. The song of justice changes with the room it’s in – and America no longer has the room it once had. Just ask all the folks who are working 16 hour days at minimum-wage jobs (or, were) in a desperate, and ultimately losing, battle to make ends meet. It will take work against circumstances to prevent the hardening of hearts – and the lengthening of Death Rows.